Friday, January 11, 2013

Women just enjoy the sound of their own voice


First and foremost, I must apology for writing this. Women who are reading this, please stay calm. I am a female yet sometimes I don't understand woman’s thinking honestly. Woman’s tongue is spinning faster than a Tornado; they scold, nag, p'ng and complain. I don’t understand why do woman complain so much about silliest things and like to make small matter become big issue.

Sit there, deep in thought and listening will not solve the problem. But, stand up to speak or voice out will make the situation worst. We understand what are the problems and do everything possible to solve the issues. Yet women constantly nag. They will just keep complaining until it is all done their way, and then they will move on the next thing. That’s all why appeasement doesn’t work. There’s always something else to complain about.

Even if you do your best and they just have to turn around and say :"well you didn’t do such and such", its all a big joke they play on you. All they think about is how they look to someone else, that’s all they really care about. Woman is really sensitive and seeks for emotional dependence. It seems as though many woman are more interested in having their pain recognized than actually resolving the issue, which doesn’t make any sense to me. Woman is exhibiting emotional based on their "magical" thinking. They feel first then think second. They simply assume that the way they see things is the way they really are or the way they should be. I am seriously sick of people making false assumptions.

Ladies, please stop complaining, start fixing things and taking charge of your life. Get Cinderella out of your head. There is no fairy tale in the world we are living now; this is real life. Stop sweating the small stuff. There are so many important things out there that need your attention, learn to accept things for the way that they are. Stop making false assumptions and keep your mind open to new possibilities.

Of course, not all women are like this. I've met quite a few whom truly a pleasure to be around, and they don't seem to complain much. It's a behavior, a habit that all of us must learn to be a better person. Let's not make it more complicated, all we need to do is to cooperate and think positive. I will not let negative thoughts rule my life!


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